NAHI CHAHIYE AMA JEE!

The moment your car comes to a stop at a traffic signal or you park it in a market and take the fateful decision to stay in the car while your family shops around, you are swarmed from all sides by shabbily dressed beggars looking as despicable as they could manage. It spookily resembles a scene from one of those zombie movies. Ever wonder why beggary is fast becoming one of the most common professions in this country?

No, it’s not because our President and his cronies are the biggest champions of it. Nice try but I don’t think that’s the reason. The reason is simple. People choose beggary as a source of income because that’s what it is….A source of income. We could spend hours discussing this menace but wouldn’t change our own habits. I’ve seen hundreds of examples where people would dish out some change for every moron who sprays them with a couple of “Meri bacchiyan jawan hain, maan beemar hai” and a few “Allah ke waastey, Allah tujhay hajj karaye” but these same apparent philanthropists would not even look at the poor souls who are actually selling something. Half a second after that old woman with matchboxes approaches them, they respond with a matter-of-fact “Nahi chahiye Ama Jee!”

Have we ever thought of the message such an attitude conveys. It shows that whereas we are not willing to pay a hardworking individual in return for something, we readily reward the one who is begging and selling nothing but his self-respect. It shows that we are too silly to see that every rupee we place in a begging hand is a slap on the face of those who are trying to earn by the sweat of their brow. It shows that we are embarrassed because we have money and feel like Hatim Tai distributing infinitesimal portions of it among the beggars. It shows that we don’t know (or don’t care) about our values, religion or common sense.

So here’s what I think. If we want to put an end to beggary, STOP ENCOURAGING IT! Now how hard is that to understand? When a profession stops paying, it will die its own sad death! And by the way, the same goes for corruption. We keep shouting that bribery is destroying our country and keep forgetting that if we stop offering bribes, no one can take them by force. Easier said than done? Of course, as I have said before, everything is easier said than done. Except procrastination. So let’s forget about beggary and corruption. We’ll do something about them later.

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DAMNED IF HE DID , DAMNED IF HE DIDN’T

Call me an idiot but I still don’t get it how one person holding a high office in our country (The President) can be condemned all over the media and the country as a whole and even accused of High Treason because he allegedly wrote something (a memo) to a foreign country (USA) in which he said things against an important institution (the army), while at the same time another person holding a high office (The Prime Minister) can be condemned and accused of contempt because he DID NOT write something (a letter) to a foreign country (Switzerland) against an important institution (The President)?

I mean seriously, how does that work?

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10 THINGS ABOUT PAIN

We live trying to avoid pain and yet, our lives end up full of it. Pains of losing loved ones, physical injuries, emotional traumas, disappointments, failures……..we continuously feel that our life did not turn out the way we expected and wanted. Let me tell you a secret…..it never does. Over the years, I have experienced all kinds of pains, and so must have everyone else in his or her own way, and I have learnt that

1. When life does not give me what I want, the fault might not lie with life, but with my expectations.

2. When I want something badly and do not get it, God invariably compensates for it by giving me something else, usually much better. I just have to make sure that my disappointment does not prevent me from noticing that.

3. Sometimes, when I got what I wanted, I realized that it was not as big a deal as I imagined it to be and the euphoria of success died away too soon. Mostly, the effort and the anxiety are way more enjoyable than the actual success.

4. What I got (or didn’t get) are things of the past. What I am and can be are things that drive me forward.

5. Ignoring or suppressing the pain does not help. It is okay to cry and get it out of your system. Sometimes all a pain requires from you is acknowledgement.

6. Convincing myself that nothing bad would ever happen is futile. Becoming the person who can transform any tragedy into an opportunity is much more fun.

7. When my brain tells me that I just cannot go on, I just need to tell my brain that I can. The brain gets tired and just needs a little rest, I need to empty it of all fears and thoughts and then fill it with what I want.

8. Courage does not mean that I don’t feel pain; it means that I don’t let it hamper my progress.

9. Failure to feel any pain is not valor; it is numbness and could signal a mental or physical malfunction.

10. Life is sometimes like a video game. When it gets hard, it just means that you have played well and have reached a higher level.

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Moments

No day, not even a moment is like any other before it. We just don’t have the time to notice. We wake up every day groaning about the monotony, the tediousness of life and fail to realize the variety and adventure lying dormant in every single moment of every single day. Moments pass with unfathomable speed and with every passing second we change. And we are never the same again.

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